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Summer Hit Different This Year
On survival mode, better toolkits, and the giggling in the other room
Jun 8
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Miss Shannan Paul
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Grumpy Cat’s Bath Era
On staying curious, last days of school, and the summer I’m actually looking forward to
Jun 7
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Miss Shannan Paul
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May 2026
Works in Progress
On five AM wake-ups, domino theories, and the growth you don’t always notice until you catch yourself
May 23
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Miss Shannan Paul
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Hardening Season
On gardening failures, caregiver growth, and getting ready for soil you haven't seen yet
May 21
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Miss Shannan Paul
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0:59
I’ll Do It Myself Is Not the Flex I Thought It Was
On busy seasons, sock piles, and raising a fully functioning human being
May 11
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Miss Shannan Paul
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The Chaos Came With Me
On irony, Idaho, and the peace you build inside the storm
May 2
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Miss Shannan Paul
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0:55
April 2026
Caregiver Wins: Calling An Audible - Sick Day
On crud, cough drops, and the radical act of holding still.
Apr 14
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Miss Shannan Paul
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0:50
Rest Does Not Have to Look Relaxing
You Get to Define What Rest Looks Like
Apr 4
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Miss Shannan Paul
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You’re Not the Only One Walking This Road
Today brought one of those parenting milestones that holds more than one truth at the same time.
Apr 2
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Miss Shannan Paul
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1
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1:00
March 2026
Caregiver Wins: Refusing to Let Yesterday Ruin Today
One of the easiest traps in caregiving is assuming that tomorrow will be exactly like today.
Mar 13
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Miss Shannan Paul
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0:45
Caregiver Wins: Redefining Milestones When Your Kid Turns 18
My son turned 18 this week, which apparently means everyone starts thinking about milestone charts.
Mar 7
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Miss Shannan Paul
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1:04
February 2026
Caregiver Wins: Protecting Your Energy Before the Day Even Starts
One of the strange things about being a caregiver is how easy it is to burn through your emotional energy before the day even technically begins.
Feb 28
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Miss Shannan Paul
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0:53
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